On Cheating Police Podcast I and Evelyn once discussed in an episode where one of Evelyn’s friends dated a guy for more than 7 years and after wards he gave her one crappy excuse as to why he can’t marry her.
After dating her for 8 years, i felt bad. I’ve also heard stories where guys would date girls and even go as far as doing introduction with the girls family but later on marry another girl while jilting the main babe. Guys can be mean sometimes, but there are always signs and you just weren’t observant enough. Nobody is blaming you or saying it’s your fault though, but the signs are ALWAYS there.
1. HE TOLD YOU STRAIGHT UP THAT HE DOESN’T BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE
When a guy says this, what he really means is that he doesn’t believe in marriage with you. This is a sign that he’s already made up his mind, and that if you decide to be with him, a wedding will never be in the picture.
2. HE DOESN’T EVEN CALL YOU HIS GIRLFRIEND
If you can’t get him to commit to being your actual boyfriend, what makes you think that him becoming a hubby is going to happen?
3. WHEN YOU BRING UP MARRIAGE, HE GETS DEFENSIVE AND ANGRY
This reaction means one of two things: he hates that he’s being called out on his shit, or he’s really sick and tired of hearing the marriage talk. Either way, it’s a no.
4. EVERY TIME THAT YOU ASK ABOUT MARRIAGE HE LAUGHS IT OFF OR CHANGES THE SUBJECT
This is a sign that he’s really not comfortable making a promise, simply because he’s not interested in marrying you. No matter how hard you press the issue, this guy has already made up his mind about his future, and it doesn’t involve walking down the aisle with you.
5. HIS VIEWS ON MARRIAGE ARE HORRIBLE
If a guy sees marriage as a death sentence, or a trap that women use to gain half of their possessions, he’ll never agree to marry you. It’s not that you’re lacking something, here — it’s that he’s a moron.
6. IT’S EXCUSE AFTER EXCUSE
He said he wanted a house. He now has a house, and you have no ring. Now, he wants a better car. Trust me when we say that he’s just layering on excuses so that you’ll stay without the commitment you need.
7. HE DOWNPLAYS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN PUBLIC
This kind of behavior indicates that he isn’t proud to be with you, or that he’s even hiding his taken status from others. If he won’t flaunt you in public, do you really think that he’s going to walk down the aisle with you in front of everyone he knows?
8. “I MIGHT MARRY YOU… GIVE ME MORE TIME TO THINK ABOUT IT”
Statistically speaking, most guys know that they want to marry a girl within a half year of dating. Don’t buy this line. If he can’t see what’s in front of him, kick him to the curb.
9. WHEN YOU ASK ABOUT HIS FUTURE PLANS, THEY NEVER INCLUDE YOU
The reason for this is because he doesn’t view you as part of his future. At this point, you’re a placeholder at best and about to be ditched at worst.